Who really loves you ?

Q. Is there anything real behind a love quiz?

A. Good question. The answer is "maybe, maybe not". You see, the value of a love quiz depends upon who designed it and what the purpose of the love quiz is. If it was written by a magazine writer, for entertainment purposes, then that's a good example of the "maybe not" category. However, if the love quiz was written by a professional who is trained in behavioral sciences, psychology, or relationship counseling, then you might be over into the "maybe so" side of the answer.

You see, a love quiz can be based upon real, substantive issues, questions that really matter and answers that provide insight, or they can be frivolous and designed to give a few yucks to a group of bored girls.

If your love quiz has questions such as: "How important to you is quality time apart in a relationship?", or "Could you forgive infidelity if you were partially to blame for the act being committed?", then the love quiz is attempting to identify core relationship issues that tell you something about yourself and/or your significant other.

If, on the other hand, the love quiz has questions like: "Could you date a guy who wore braces?", or "What would you do if your crush burped in front of you?", then you're probably reading a teen magazine love quiz that has no significant value.

Even a love quiz that is written with the best intentions can provide misleading results if taken in an uncontrolled environment where the quiz taker may not understand a particular question or where the possible answers are confusing or poorly worded. For the best results, a genuine love quiz should be administered by a professional and the answers analyzed afterwards. That way issues can be explored and answers clarified.

The true purpose behind a professionally designed love quiz, especially a love quiz that is taken by both people in the relationship, is to determine whether or not the relationship has a long-term chance of survival based upon quantifiable personality characteristics that have been determined to be important in committed relationships.

These characteristics include all of the traits that you might expect such as: honesty, integrity, understanding, forgiveness, drive, ambition, moral strength, religious views, political affiliations, money management skills, sense of humor, and the importance of physical attractiveness to the other person.

By taking a love quiz that explores these issues, and having the results mediated by a qualified professional, a couple has the opportunity to make decisions about the viability of a long term relationship based upon their view of what is important to each other. If a love quiz results in one partner having viewpoints that are too far apart form the other partner's, then a red flag should be raised.

An entertaining love quiz, on the other hand, is best reviewed by a bunch of friends chatting on AOL Instant Messenger or their cell phones.

Whether the love quiz is for real, or for enjoyment only, the quiz takers should be cautioned against putting too much value in the final results.

No one should make long term relationship decisions based upon someone else's standards. In the end it is the magic and chemistry between two people that provides the answers to the only love quiz that really matters!

How to Make Your Boyfriend Fall in Love With You by Using This Trick


The next time your boyfriend or the man you are dating calls you, put him on hold. Let him know you've got to get the other line and make him wait 5 minutes. Even if there is no one there, you have to renew his interest and create the right circumstances where you're not making it seem that you're desperate to have his attention.
The reason he may not have fallen in love with you is because you're not creating the right situations where he feels pushed over the edge. He probably feels he has you where he wants you. He may think he doesn't even have to try.
Sometimes when a guys getting close, women make mistakes that causes them to pull back from falling in love because these women get too eager and the guy can sense it. They'll tell the guy over and over again how they feel or go overboard with their affection. Don't do any of this.
You want to appear happy to be with him but you don't want to seem eager. Making him fall in love with you is about learning what really happens in a man's mind when he is given the ability to have you seduce him. Without the ability to seduce his mind, you won't make it to the finish line. You won't feel secure in your relationship and you'll always wonder or ask him where things stand.
Don't worry about not seeming nice when you do the phone thing. As a matter of fact, just hang up the phone because this will force him to call you back. When he calls back, don't answer. When you get back to him do what men do, they stretch the truth. Say something like, "Sorry about that. I had you on hold and then the connection was gone." Poof!
But sound sweet and girly so that he can now feel he has your full attention. Women who get lots of male interests act this way. Actually, most of them don't have to do the phone trick because they already know how to blow guys off. It's just in their nature and men chase them down for years.
You have the power to make your man have a deeper bond to you and fall madly in love if you know the right seduction techniques.
Nicole Gayle is a Dating Success Coach who has been featured on her local television station City TV. She is the creator of the popular program Girlfriend to Wife in 100 days. Get Him to Marry You in 100 Days! Melt His Resistance Away. Get the free report on men and commitment. Go to:http://www.howtogofromgirlfriendtowife.com
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